Seems another email was received from the scammer and i'm guessing she still didn't give my friend (my guy) answers he was asking for or an address to where she said she is. He told me something about that she was going to get a phone number for him to call (he wasn't very clear on this part).
But the good news is he has finally let this go. He told her to forget it and told me it is over with his interest in this girl and I think he will stick to it now...Which now leaves us getting back to normal lives!!!
(I think he has chosen not to beleive in so much that she is a scammer but that she just wont ever actually be available...maybe this is for the best. He isn't really the type to get into blogging and message boards and probably would not be interested in sharing his story. It was an expensive, tough and I know it would just embarrase him to admit he was scammed and at this point so long as the contact is stopped there is nothing more to be done.) I have had quite a journey through learning about all of this myself.
This is honestly the best Christmas/Chanukah present in the world
Here's to starting 2013 and a future without any more worries from this scammer!