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 Post subject: how to get off the emotional roller coaster of fake love?
PostPosted: Fri Feb 04, 2011 7:26 am 

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would anyone here be a psychologist? or have interest in healing?
i find myself still checking the damn computer as if it were a tie ; this experience has just done me in completely; emotionally ;
the photos are what really got me; i have looked at thousands of photos since; none would interest me but his; such odd timing how he was there the one day i was and only 4 miles away supposedly; he was absolutely my idea of perfect ( for me)
the photos were all real as i even went to a pro photographer and he said they were all taken with a flash camera and if doctored it was only a little background;
i dreamed the other night that i was standing between the criminal minds actor and house dr chase from the tv shows and i wondered why they didnt know me at all; i told them but i know you so well; that was perhaps symbolic of this romance online; its a fantasy dream they sell ; you dont want it all to be nothing as you invested your heart and soul all into it and money too at times; we were so sure he was real we even set a room up for him and his son;
why cant i just walk and get on? i feel such grief over this fake thing; so embarrassed ;devastated my scammer( the one that i know well)( they work in shifts but i dont know if he does or is solo) finally said he was a black man and 5'5" and 30 years old; he also apologized; i think he meant this; why do they like yahoo messenger so much- everything can be seen on it with software; they can save the conversations and pick up at the next shift- at least i read this online; why would he tell so much and expose himself; he is too smart for that; i wonder if he is this or actually my guy adding a layer of protection as the degree of education to steal so much and get past the bank twice and hack into 5 bank accounts and have a cpa involved etc, was pretty high;he has to be excellent in computers also;i am sure he added a couple of bugs into my computer using emails; this wasnt a small operation that i got into ;there are times i almost think they are watching my computer screen as it will suddenly move or scroll; he knows my purpose is to train educate and prevent fraud from now on; we always talked over deep stuff you never talk about; he would be a fantastic psychologist ;therapist; think of all he must have heard! he said at times we have wounds that dont ever heal; hmmmm..

 Post subject: Re: how to get off the emotional roller coaster of fake love?
PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 12:21 pm 
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suba wrote:
he also apologized; i think he meant this;

Nope, do not ever believe that an apology from a scammer is genuine. He is a turd, a piece of dirt, someone to be squashed out of existence.

There is only one truth in the words spat from the mouth of internet scum... "give me your money, I want your money". This is their purpose, and you do not matter one bit to him. He doesn't care he has hurt you, and he will always try and say things to get you back onboard again. Given the chance he will take every cent from your life, he will make you take out massive loans, sell car, house, belongings, cut you off from family and friends... and when you have nothing left, he will tell you to sell yourself to supply him with cash.

Anyone, and I truly mean anyone, who befriends a person through a website, any website, and asks for money... is a fraud, deceipt, liar and scammer.

"While men are decent to me I try to be decent to them, regardless of race, colour, politics, creed or anything else"
James Bigglesworth

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 Post subject: Re: how to get off the emotional roller coaster of fake love?
PostPosted: Sat Feb 05, 2011 10:55 pm 

Joined: Mon Apr 25, 2005 8:10 am
Posts: 583
And to make matters worse... it may not even be a "he"... these people set up shop with men and women and they spend their day in rooms on computers hunting for and communicating with their victims... this is what they do all day long... like biggles said... they have no interest whatsoever in the person they are scamming... the pictures are "stolen" from all over the internet... they are also very good and convincing!!! Don't be fooled by anything they say... IT'S ALL A LIE.

 Post subject: Re: how to get off the emotional roller coaster of fake love?
PostPosted: Mon Feb 07, 2011 1:22 pm 
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And we do understand that even though it was all a lie, for a while it felt like it was real, so it does still hurt. It will take time.

He said all of the right things and was perfect, and that is why it is so hard to let go. But what you have to remember is that "perfect" person was just as "real" as a character in a book or a movie. Really, that is what these people do . . . play a character . . . and that character will be whatever YOUR perfect person is.

It will take time, but it will get better.

I would also recommend going to this site. ... links.html

This lady is living proof that you can find out that your love was a lie, and move on with your life.

Shawn Mosch
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