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please allow me to share my own experience with match.coN (no fault of theirs;) it is loaded with men scammers; i wrote it to share freely;also have some others if you want; i have been doing my own research and have seen some patterns that might be great to prevent others from suffering; do u want these observations? i am new and so glad to see this site!

THE GHOST LOVE
who he is no one knows,cant tell
he says the perfect words to put you under his spell
then he takes charge and makes you feel like he cares
he asks for money, something you cant spare
so he steals it all in the name of love
and when you question his reality
he says you just dont trust
the ghost is not who he appears
he becomes your fantasy
he does have a voice
he can be anyone you want him to be
then you fall and dont even know if he is real
cuz he captured you in your need
you jumped off the cliff, wanted to believe
the sliver of hope and heart denied
now you feel kind of dead
must gather the scattered pieces
have to look ahead

I totally agree with you concerning the romantic fraud. Unfortunately, match.com is not the only website this has occurred on. It is on BBW Datefinder.com., tagged.com, and eharmony.com. Unfortunately everyone is looking for love and these scammers say all the right words, throw God into the conversation. Romance you over the internet. All of a sudden, they get a job in Africa and need your Love, trust and support! Support is what they are looking for. Your head is so far in the clouds, they have your mind swimming. I actually met 2 guys on different sites that had similiar stories! One guy said he was a cowboy and half Nigerian. His mother raised him, now she had to go back to Africa and is now very sick. He tells you he needs help with support and honesty is the key "He will never lie to you" Unfortunately so many people fall for these words because they are lonely. I gues the target word for me was "widow" my husband died of cancer bac in august so I looked like someone they could prey on. What they didnt realize is that I am a realist as well as if I get a bad feeling about something, it is usually right. I never sent any money, I never gave out any information. I even bought a love poetry book and sent the scammer "words" from my heart." After about six weeks of asking me for money and a phone, I guess he realized I was not giving him any information. The emails stopped suddenly and I guess the scammers moved on to the next victim. Do not send these scammers any personal information. A word to the wise, be cautious, if the guy/woman sounds too good to be true, they usually are.

Good luck to those looking for Love