below is an IM conversation between 'Dave Stankova' (
davestan86@yahoo.com) and myself. this conversation happened on May 5, 2008. although he admits guilt, he is also mocking me in saying (about himself) ' i am a fraud...a cheat...a scam', since this is what i had posted about him on various web sites.
i will take this 'apology' for what it's worth - and hope that others can be spared the emotional train wreck that these people cause!
davestan86 (5:09:08 PM): Hi
ME (5:09:20 PM): hi
davestan86 (5:09:34 PM): i ve been looking for a chance to apologise to you
ME (5:09:57 PM): ?
davestan86 (5:10:12 PM): i am deeply sorry for everything
davestan86 (5:10:22 PM): i am not who you think i am
davestan86 (5:10:38 PM): it's been a ruse all this while
davestan86 (5:10:52 PM): and i want to ask for your forgiveness
ME (5:11:08 PM): i'm confused. explain please.
davestan86 (5:11:24 PM): People do horrible things does not mean they are horrible
davestan86 (5:12:02 PM): it's hard to explain
davestan86 (5:12:18 PM): but i want you to know that i am truly sorry
davestan86 (5:12:26 PM): you are a good person
davestan86 (5:12:41 PM): and should never meet people like me
ME (5:13:04 PM): if you are not who i think you are, who are you?
davestan86 (5:14:14 PM): i am a man somewhere trying to make a living the wrong way
davestan86 (5:14:31 PM): but i have concience
ME(5:14:58 PM): who was i talking to on the phone?
davestan86 (5:14:59 PM): Look, there is no justification for evil
davestan86 (5:15:07 PM): evil is evil
davestan86 (5:15:35 PM): i am the person you are talking with on the phone
ME (5:15:52 PM): ok. what is your name?
davestan86 (5:16:19 PM): Look <my name>
davestan86 (5:16:34 PM): I have not been myself for sometime now
davestan86 (5:16:52 PM): and i know that i need to ask for forgiveness
ME (5:17:06 PM): it's fine. you're forgiven.
davestan86 (5:17:34 PM): remember the day you called and someone else answered?
ME(5:17:41 PM): yes
davestan86 (5:17:59 PM): He is the real person behind all this
davestan86 (5:18:15 PM): i am just an instrument in they use to work
davestan86 (5:18:30 PM): i am really sorry
ME(5:18:31 PM): will you get in trouble for telling me this?
davestan86 (5:19:15 PM): Yes but i am happy to get something off my chest
ME (5:19:40 PM): thank you for telling me
davestan86 (5:20:00 PM): No thank you for listening
ME (5:20:25 PM): who is the person in the pictures you sent me?
davestan86 (5:20:46 PM): He is an innocent man
davestan86 (5:21:00 PM): it's just a picture from somwhere else
ME (5:21:14 PM): so what do you look like?
davestan86 (5:21:32 PM): I am not a white man for your information
davestan86 (5:21:44 PM): i am african
davestan86 (5:22:18 PM): too bad i use my education for something else
davestan86 (5:22:35 PM): i am really ashamed of myself
ME (5:23:09 PM): well, thank you for being honest with me.
ME (5:23:21 PM): are you really the person i was talking to on the phone?
davestan86 (5:24:33 PM): yes. except the day someone else answered
davestan86 (5:25:59 PM): i hated doing this to someone that is really caring
davestan86 (5:26:14 PM): all the while, i wished i was the person in that picture
davestan86 (5:26:39 PM): But nothing last forever especially lies
ME (5:27:15 PM): i guess that's true. it's too bad, because i really cared for you (even though i thought it was someone else)
davestan86 (5:28:06 PM): i am sorry
davestan86 (5:28:37 PM): i am a fraud
davestan86 (5:28:41 PM): a cheat
davestan86 (5:28:48 PM): and a scam
davestan86 (5:28:58 PM): but i am truly sorry
davestan86 (5:30:18 PM): i hope that you will find the love of you're life
davestan86 (5:30:26 PM): that is my prayer for you
davestan86: stay off the internet
ME: ?
davestan86: especially people in london and Nigeria or south africa or kenya
davestan86: please stay away from them
davestan86: that is my last word
davestan86: have a good day
davestan86: thank you