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 Post subject: Please give me a good advice
PostPosted: Thu Jul 26, 2007 1:47 pm 
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Hello groupmembers,

Already for a while I am interested in the postings here. Also it is good to see that other people react and can give some advise. Here I need your advise about my story, I have strongly the feeling that I got also the victim of a Romanian scammer. If so, it would be good to register here is name, address, emailaddress and photo’s to warn other people because I am quite sure that he will try again, with a gay man or maybe older woman. Already I made a homepage about this person about 1,5 years ago, but I removed it, however it can not be to hard to restore it. I would not have thought about doing this, if I knew it was an honest guy, but I am used for just financial reason by him. To start I was divorced when I met him, my Romanian ex-husband told me before to never trust 1 Romanian, they are all prepared to even sell their mother if it brings money. They live just for money, to get it without doing something for it. Even some other Romanian people told me similar things. However, the way we are raised in western europe is different. I think each person deserves a chance, even a second or a third and I couldn’t convict one because he was born in that country. Already I had some bad experiences with some people from there, they try to let you believe they are your friend, they are friendly, like we say almost licking your heels etc. They try to win your confidence. I met the guy in a period I think I was very vulnerable. I fell for his kind talking, compliments etc. However he was so much younger then me I was stupid enough to fall in love. Life became too good to be true. He told me the age difference was no problem for him, he planned lots of things, which ofcourse costed me money. For instance he would like to start a company so he could make a living from it. He prommissed to go on with the life I had and my hobbies. For that I bought clothes for my handler in shows (not special for him), also shoes.
I invested about 3000 euro to buy things he could sell in Romania, he could keep the profit, I just needed my money back, which now is lost money. After a few months he started to make arguements. I teached him to drive an he needed to go to Romania to make the license there. I gave him money for that. After his returning 2 months later, life was more hard with him. He expected presents, gave a big mouth to get things his way, started to put conditions etc. Since I had a programm running on the pc to catch my minor daughter I checked it each night. One night I also read some written by him. I was in total shock. He was chatting with gay men and trying to date them. I was so in shock I couldnt speak about it. Also I found his advert in a gay page at meeting.com, (after a tip from a friend who recognised him and my garden that was on the photo there) I still have that page saved somewhere on the pc. After a few weeks I was so upset about all I found daily that I started to drink a bottle of whikey. That was bad, because there all my grieve came out and I started to cry. When he came into the bedroom and started to argue again, I threw all out. This I didn’t deserve. I just tried to do good for him. He started to cry and said all was just a game for him. He wouldn’t do again. He blamed his mother for this. We made up and I believed him again........ A few months later he had to return to make the driverlicense for the motor that I bought. Again he left with lots of things he was not allowed to take. Each time when he went to Romania he took without asking big sportbags from me because his bags were not enough to put all. I can not say he stole money allthough he had possibility for that but I guess he gambled on a bigger fish then we had in the house. In the same period he wanted to move from my house and Germany would be great because there he might be able to go skiing in winter. All over he told I was his “ wife” .After 2 months again I drove to Romania to take him again. After I bought the house which he said he “ loved” the house should be registered also in his name but the notary stopped this, telling that it would be stupid since he has no money and doesnt pay for it. It was better I gave him yearly a part, so after for instance long time living with me, he would have his part from it. From that moment he refused to go with me to the notary and other places where I needed to go for the house. At the old house he was just out with the motor to the beach, letting his brother who was there as well to help with moving doing all the work. The relation got worse by the day. My mother told me to throw the parasite out, but when you are in love you are blind they say...... He went and came as he wanted, put conditions and wanted money. Suddenly he told me he could have aupairjob in UK. He wanted to go, ofcourse, he wouldn’t get half the house as present. I was not able to make a visum for UK, he had to require that from the country he lived. So his mood went down by the day. Then he told he went to Brussel to see friends, which was a lie I found out a few months later, he went to some gay. While it was his birthday which we should celebrate, we waited all for him to return, but he didn’t. He returned next day, looking very tired and now I understand why. He decided if he can’t go to UK he goes back to Romania to “ study”. Before he left we changed one of my bankaccounts in 2 names and he got an europas for him. A week or something after he left to Romania he asked if he can take some money from it because he would like to go in the mountains. I agreed. Later I found out he was to Bucarest, where he met another gay that presented a tv show there. For the moment the guy lives in Italy. After that weekend he wrote me he wanted to break the relation with me. I was very upset, even thinking of suicide. Another aupair arrived, the poor guy had a bad time with me, I cried all day, couldn’t push myself to do something, I was very depressed. There I started to check the pc again. Amazing how many guys he wrote telling them they are so sweet and he could think of living together, one was a Dutch, now living in US, even found all his familystory with googling that guys name and where he lives etc. Another was living in Brussel, is in mode, I have some pics from his house. There were more. He had gender with several men in the time he was with me. How could I have been so blind. In the same period my granddaughter was born and I couldn’t find the videocamera, so I called him. O sorry, I took it with me he said. I don’t know why that was nessecairy to take, also other things were gone, like clothes I bought etc. I never bought anything telling him it was a present for him.
He could use them while he was here. After all the breaking up etc. he started again to call sometimes. In that period I collected all I could find to prove what he did, it helped me through the day and I put all emails and chats together to a homepage.
I found people that wanted to rent my House in Holland, so financially I had or better, could have a good life. He wanted to come for Christmas and that made me happy. He told me never he would do things like he did again, he wouldn’t hurt me again and we made up.
In that perod he discoverd he had something, I gave him the money to go to the doctor and to buy medication. He was infected with HPV also he had infected me with it, but I found out several months later. Over a month later I was back in Romania, to return his brother that came as aupair for 3 months. He was not at home when we arrived, he came next day. It was eastern in Romania. We decided to go to a turistic place and not stay in the apartment with his parents. I felt he behaved strange. The 3e day I found out he cheated me again, in the middle of the night I packed my things and left to friends in another city. When I came home ofcourse very depressed and I felt used, I needed to go back to the doctor to make another test to see if I was infected with HPV. The test was positiv. Since he refused to return things I paid for and this testresult I got furious and published the webpage I made and sent the link to all his contacts from Yahoo and his emailcontacts. I became quite an expert in finding deleted files in the pc. I also had taken my laptop which he took to Romania after Christmas. It was new, but I found so many gay stuff on it, it made me sick. One of my friends was there and even she couldn’t believe what all was on. So his prommisses from a few months ago were worth nothing. This guy costet me a lot of money. In august we met again and he decided to return to me. I removed the page from internet. Ofcourse, now I realise that I was going to start a new job with a high income. I noticed that evry time when finances were good with me he decided to come again. He had some tests in school this year so had to return to Romania again. I made a new bankpas for him incase he needed some money. I take care of the people I love. First his brother asked me for a loan. I refused because I already knew the money would never be repaid. Then he started to complain, he really needed a pc for his study, he wanted a loan. At the end they didn’t need because they bought a cheap used one. I made plane reservation for him to return, he told me the date, but he never came. He went to Ireland thinking he could make money there. Also he tried to find work in England. After his return in Romania he wanted again money because he returned with debts from Ireland.
So I wote him a message that he needs to work for money like all of us. Now he doesnt even reply on a message. He found stupid reasons to fight with me to have excuses to not come anymore. So his so called ” I never hurt you again” was just worth something as long as I let him to take money. In jabuar he wanted to take one of my cars to Romania. Well I realise now that I never would have seen that car again. This guy thinks he is so good, hansom and clever and very arrogant, but putting all together it is the oposed. I made my things. He will never get away with it this way. He made a big mistake with the bankaccount in his name as well. Because now he owns half the debtsJ and they will be there till I die.
I calculated all which he took and has no right on. That money one day he has to pay for.
My story with this guy can fill a book, if you have any question, feel free to ask or write in privat. When you think this was a scammer, and I can publish all I would like to know, because I know he still contacts gay because he wants a way to escape from Romania. He lives in the most poor area in a very poor family, his mother had 3 children at the age of 19, was pregnant when she was 15 had no real life of her own at all. In the beginning I felt sorry and wanted to help, but these people are doing all themselves. And they think it is a normal thing to live on somebody elses expenses. How can one expect a 15 year old child to raise her children with morality and decency. I am coming in Romania already for many years, didnt trust them at all, just gave 1 guy the benefits of the doubts....... His so called university he is dong is a fake. They name it like that to impress people, but here it is not even a highschool.
What is worst from all, I trusted this guy and forgave him time after time, I waited for him in april, ticket was booked and payd for, then he should arrive early july. I had to go to the docter, urgently, was just waiting for him to have time for this. Now the docter told me I lost precious time and I need to go directly to the specialist, it can’t wait. He doesn’t react on messages, sms etc. Next week I will go to the notary to make the nessecairy changes. Please let me know what you think of this all. Already my feelings are killed totally I guess. What I can’t understand that people can do this type of things to another human.


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PostPosted: Fri Oct 19, 2007 3:07 am 
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My best advice is don't let him come back again no matter what sad story he tells. It should be obvious by now that these are just stories he tells to get you to feel sorry for him. Change your bank accounts telephone # and email address. If he shows up at your door tell him to go away. If he doesn't go call the police.


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PostPosted: Sat Oct 20, 2007 6:06 am 
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no way i dont change
i am very sick and want to warn the world
i live by the day
read the prof. page:
http://www.anicai-crooks-lupeni.eu
he doent call
he is official regitered with debts
when i die now
he is the only official owner from that account


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