100% scam bitch !
aussie_matt wrote:
Hi all,
I'm new to this site, and after reading this thread I'd like your opinion of a situation i'm currently in. i met a girl a little over 12 months ago on a cam site... most of the story is a cut and paste of previous entries so i will keep it brief.
The basic details are, I am married - unhappily so at the time obviously. We struck up a friendship, which grew over a period of 6 months or so, to the point where I left my wife and was preparing to start a new life with this girl. I called it off at the 11th hour and decided to have another shot at making my marriage work. I still talk to this girl on and off. I still care for her a great deal and feel guilty doing what I did to her. I sent her a good deal of cash over the time we were in a relationship, and have even sent small amounts since. She needs more right now, and I'm very hesitant to do it again, especially after what i've been reading. What has me most confused is some parts of the story are a cut and paste of previous posts, and others make me think she is legit...
The seemingly honest details:
- she admitted to me early that she was married, although unhappily so, and that her husband was in the uk working (she has now moved the the uk to try and make things work with him)
- i have her mobile number, street address, email address, facebook details etc. her facebook appears legit as she is friends with her brother, cousins, aunt etc. I even had her password at one stage which she didnt mind and nothing alarming showed up there. the GPS tagging on her facebook posts confirms her previous address and her current location in the uk
- she has (or says she has) 2 uni degrees - nursing and politics - which seem legit
- she was new to the job when i met her - which is verified by her profile details on various cam sites
- at one stage her husband returned home for a few weeks, and they seemed to fight alot. she appeared at work one day with a bruised cheek where he had slapped her and a bruised knuckle from punching him in the mouth
- i heard her talk about me to other guys in her chat room when (i think) she didnt know i was looking, and her story or character didnt change
The suspicious-sounding details:
- constant tales of woe regarding money - my pay barely covers rent, i have personal loans to pay, i have not eaten for days, i will get evicted if i dont pay rent etc etc etc. The current tale is that her AND husband have run out of work in london and will be evicted. (i have to admit i fell straight in for these every time.
- thinking about it now there was one occasion where she appeared on cam in a new dress after i sent cash - she got very defensive when i lectured her on saving
- she has on occasion seemed to lose interest when i say i cant pay
- the fact that such an educated girl is even in this line of work
- she knew quite well from the outset how Western Union worked.
Other points to add - she was definitely female, and I never actually met he in person.
I told my wife about the whole thing when I walked out last year - I'm still trying to regain her trust after that. Now I'm worried that I potentially got so close to throwing my marriage away for a scam, not to mention the cash. Any thoughts on this girl?